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  • Everyone-bring a rosary
  • K-4th Bring a Flower
  • 5-12th Lead Rosary


St. Mary's will provide the hot dogs, chips, cookies, drinks and paper products.



Sunday - May 4
First Sunday Food Collection for Solon Food Pantry
Steubenville Fundraising Breakfast 8:00-noon

THIS SUNDAY'S GOSPEL
The Road to Emmaus

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The people on the road to Emmaus did not recognize Jesus, even when he walking with them and talking to them.


This week, ask your kids to remember and re-tell stories they know about Jesus.  Talk about how these stories help us walk with Jesus and to see Jesus in others around us.  

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Vacation Bible School 
 
WEIRD ANIMALS
July 14-18


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We continue to celebrate the 50 days of the Easter Season

Easter Prayer

Praise to you Risen Christ.
You brought light to the whole world by your Resurrection.
May your Easter light bring peace to our home.
May your Easter light bring peace to the world.
Shine in us.
Light our hearts and minds to know you better,
to love you more and more,
and to serve you by shining your light in our family,
for our friends, and to the world around us.
Send your blessing on us and on those
most in need of your light.
You live and reign with God the Father
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, forever and ever.  Amen



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Let Christ transform your marriage. 

 Make the decision this Lent to enrich your marriage! 
Next weekend:  May 16-18 in Cedar Falls. 
To register or for more information contact 

Roger & Marsha Luensmann at 563-927-4352.  
Or visit www.iowa-wwme.org


  - - - - Previous Events & Updates- - - -

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Families join us for our last night:
Wednesday - April 30

6:30-8:00

Marian Celebration 
& Family Picnic



In anticipation of May, when the church honors Mary in a special way, our families gather together to honor Mary as the first Christian and seek her guidance and intercession for our families.

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Pre-K Program 
Next class is
Sunday, Apr 27


During the 10:30 Mass, kids will join in arts, crafts, and story telling to learn about Jesus and his love for them.  contact Lindsey at 319-400-2484 or [email protected] to sign-up your child

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Holy Thursday
Thursday, April 17  7:00pm
Adoration until 10:00pm

Good Friday
Friday, April 18   3:00pm
Stations of the Cross  7:00pm

Easter Vigil
Saturday, April 19   8:30pm

Easter Sunday
Sunday, April 20   
8:30am & 10:30am

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Saturday, April 5
Spring Clean-Up

Beginning at 9:00 am in our cemetery by our old church and then the flower beds at our church. Families - come help us for an hour or two. 

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Saturday, April 5  6:00-8:30
Free Childcare & Dinner for both Parents & Kids

SIGN-UP ONLINE TODAY!
click HERE for more information


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   January 1
 9:00am Mass

January 1 is a Holy Day of Obligation for Catholics not because it is New Years, but because it is the octave (8th day) of Christmas, the feast of Mary the Mother of God.  Over the last 2000 years, the Virgin Mary has been called many things.  Protestants and even Muslims agree that she is the “Blessed Mother,” but call her the “Mother of God,” and you see many squirm.  But, this is nothing new –read about the riot sparked over the title “Mother of God” in the Early Church 


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Help Decorate for Christmas!
After the 10:30 Mass this coming Sunday, December 22.  It should only take one hour.  Make a NEW family tradition & let us know if your family can join us: 624-2228

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THIS Wednesday Dec. 15 at 6:30 in the Church:  
Parents, while your kids are in class...take time out to watch an inspiring video from the CATHOLICISM DVD series
Mary, the Mother of God...learn about our mother in heaven.


Attending 5:00 Christmas Eve?
If yes, would your family like to come at 4:00 and help greet before Mass?  OR would your family like to join a group who will be signing a couple of simple Christmas Carols outside as people leave?  IF YES, please call church 624-2228.
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This Sunday's Gospel
Jesus appears to his disciples and calls them to believe in him.
 
What does it mean to believe in something? How can you believe in something you can’t see?


PALM SUNDAY'S GOSPEL

Passion of the Lord
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What do you remember most from attending Palm Sunday Mass? Why do you think we hold blessed palms in church?

Hearing the story of Jesus's Passion is very sad.  The Gospel says that the daughters of Jerusalem wept for mercy for Jesus.  How do you feel to know that Jesus died for our sins?


Click to HERE to learn how to make a cross from your palm.

THIS SUNDAY'S GOSPEL
Jesus Raises Lazarus
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Jesus brings his good friend, Lazarus, back to life, after he has been dead for four days.

When Jesus was at the home of his friends, Martha and Mary, he wept for the death of their brother Lazarus who was his friend.  What does it tell us about Jesus and his love for his friends?

When the people saw Lazarus rise from the tomb, they began to believe in Jesus.  How do you think you would have reacted?

THIS SUNDAY'S GOSPEL
Jesus Cures Blind Man
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Jesus cures a man who was blind since birth. Ask your kids why they think Jesus' healed the blind man.  Jesus is always helping people with disabilities in the Gospel.  How can your family be more helpful and welcoming to people with disabilities?

Human touch is necessary for the healthy development of children.  This week, begin a habit of blessing your child with the Sign of the cross each morning before he/she goes to school.  Trace the cross with your thumb on their forehead while saying, "May the Lord bless you and keep you safe today."  

THIS SUNDAY'S GOSPEL
Jesus & the Woman at the Well
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Jesus met a woman at the well who was sad; who was "thirsty" for real love.  Jesus promised her that she would never have to thirst for that again.  He promised to fill her with a spring of water that would well up to eternal life, eternal happiness.

Talk with your children about the spring rains and how they cleanse and bring new life.  How can Jesus cleanse us and bring us new life?


PRAY THIS AT DINNER TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY:
"Loving God, we thank you for all the blessings  you have given our family          (each person says a blessing) and we ask for   your special blessing up our hopes and needs        (each person says a need)."





Walk Closely with Jesus 
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Parents - JOIN US ON WEDNESDAYS
CHILDCARE PROVIDED!
WEDNESDAY GROUP BEGINS MARCH 12
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My favorite daily reflections on the two scripture readings from Mass.
I like how Gus  connects the Old Testament reading to the Gospel, connects it to our culture, and helps to make it relevant - to live out God's Word in our lives.

Check out his 60 Second Reflections and consider signing up to receive  daily emails.  Julie


PictureTransfiguration Matthew 17:1-9
We learn about the transfiguration in this Sunday's Gospel.  Discuss the Gospel on the way home from Mass:
  1. Jesus invited his friends to share a special moment with him.  When have you felt Jesus being close to you?
  2. Jesus told his disciples that they would have to do hard things in order to follow him.  What hard things do you have to do in order to follow Jesus?
  3. Jesus told his disciples to "be not afraid."  How does Jesus help you to not be afraid?

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Look in the church Gathering Space for Rice Bowls (and look at the Rice Bowl insert for ideas), the Lenten Word Among Us daily scripture and meditation booklets and also Jewels in the Crown prayer booklets for families

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Use the  ideas in the center of our parish newsletter,  to help your family renew your relationship with Jesus this Lent

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3 minutes a day =
24 hours of peace!


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Sunday, January 12
      Feast of the Baptism of the Lord


Jesus' baptism was the beginning of his work of spreading God's Word.  Our Baptism had the same purpose.  what can we do to spread God's Word this year in our families?

Bring out mementos of the Baptisms of the members of your family this weekend. Share stories about that special day.  If you have pictures, share them while you tell the stories.  If you have the baptismal candles, perhaps you can put them at each person's place during dinner and light them.


Parents, this light is entrusted to you to be kept burning brightly.  This child of yours has been enlightened by Christ.  He (she) is to walk always as a child of the light.  may she (he) keep the flame of faith alive in her (his) heart.


Give kids the good word


• “Do your best and let God do the rest.”
 Sharen, mother of two, says this with her children every day before school. She says the first part, and the kids respond with the second part. “If I don’t do it, the girls will loudly exclaim, ‘Say it, Mama!’ as if they can’t leave the car and go into school without it,” Sharen says.

• “What’s one way you helped someone today?” Nancy and Scott, parents of two, ask this question almost every evening at dinner in order to emphasize to their children that service to others is an important part of life.

• “Let the Holy Spirit nudge you today.” Maria, a mother of two, says this before dropping off her children at school to remind them to be open to God’s movement in their lives.

• “God bless Max. Be with him during his math test.” John, a father of three, traces a cross on the forehead of each of his children before bed, with a blessing for an upcoming event.


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          Why Put a Crucifix in 
   every Room of Your Home?




















By Lisa Schmidt
The Baptism of the Lord officially marks the end of the Christmas season. Time to put away the tree, lights, stockings, and nativity. Images of the Baby King now fade from view, allowing the crucified Christ to once again take center stage. Lent is, after all, right around the corner....READ MORE

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Hi My name is Danielle Bean,  join me on a New Year’s Resolution to rediscover the feminine strengths that help you find peace, balance, and joy in the role God gave you.

                             SIGN-UP NOW!

Each day I will send you a short reflection and question that take an honest hard look at our vocation to motherhood and the very real challenges, frustrations…and joys we face.

Our small and hidden work, in the hearts of our homes, is life-changing, world-changing stuff that only we can do. We all need a reminder that the work we do as mothers does in fact matter. In fact, it matters more than many of us will ever know.

ADVENT FAVORITES 
FROM OUR SUNDAY VISITOR

The Definitive Guide to Advent and Christmas

Reasons for Hope 

Advent and Christmas Prayers 

Keeping an Advent attitude 

Ten Ways to Get More out of Advent 

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Light Your Candles!

Bring a little peace & beauty to your dinners together...turn down the lights and light up your candles.  

Here are weekly prayers to use with your wreath, at your dinner table or bedtime. 

Advent: The right stuff When Norma and John’s six children were small, the family received a letter from Santa sometime during Advent each year. “In the note, Santa would write that there wasn’t room in our home for more stuff,” says Norma. “He asked the kids to read more


For the Man Who Hated Christmas
It’s just a small, white envelope stuck among the branches of our Christmas tree. No name, no identification, no inscription. It has peeked through the branches of our tree for the past ten years or so.
It all began because my husband   read more
Seven tips for remembering 
that it’s still Advent
We may not be buying into our culture’s commercialized Christmas, but we can still lose sight of what we are preparing for. As important               as family is and as beautiful as gift giving can be, if we neglect the core of Christmas, 
we miss out — in a big way.   READ MORE
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Advent At Home 

PARENTS:  
Use the mailing sent to your home to choose a new Advent Family Tradition.... Family traditions give kids a sense of stability and togetherness.


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Circle of Grace  was developed by the Archdiocese of Omaha to educate  youth about the value of positive relationships with God and others. .Through the program, children  are taught to identify and maintain appropriate physical, emotional, spiritual and sexual boundaries; recognize when boundary violations are about to occur; and demonstrate how to take action when boundaries are threatened or violated.

K-4TH GR. PARENTS: Use This Resource with Your Child


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Daily Marriage Tip For April 22, 2014:
Praying the Rosary together, as a family, is very beautiful and a source of great strength!” (Pope Francis) Do you pray the rosary as a family? Try it!


For Parents: if you would like to learn how to pray the Rosary - but the meditations seem confusing and you're not sure what to think about... I recommend Immaculee's book  
"The Prayer that Save My Life." 


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CLICK ON PICTURE GREAT VIDEO RESOURCE for parents

Download the free companion guide: “Protecting Your Family Online: A parent’s how-to guide“

    It’s not if a child will be exposed 

  porn, but when.



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Are You Loving Or Spoiling Your Kids?
by Tamara Rajakariar
As a recent Time article put it, “the best intentions can sometimes create bad parenting habits that are difficult to break”. Looking at my own amazing parents and other couples I know, I see how easy it would be to act in the interests of your child’s immediate comfort, rather than acting in a way that will benefit them in the future. read more...


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You Are Her First Love 
Our culture ties girls in knots, 
and your daughter is no exception.

No matter how hard you try to isolate her from the ugly influence of a world that sexualizes and degrades women, you can’t. And since you are the primary means by which she develops a healthy sense of beauty and sexuality, when it comes to shaping these in her, it’s on your shoulders.

When it comes to loving your daughter, remember these important ideas:

• Tell her that you love her. Tell her as frequently as feels natural to you.

• Express adoration. Let her know that she is the apple of your eye.

• Believe in her. Most girls, especially during the teen years, feel terribly inadequate, dumb, and unattractive. You need to really amp up your positive comments during the tough times and help her combat those feelings.

• Don’t remark on her weight—EVER. No pet names for parts of her body, no calling her “sexy,” and no telling her that she’s chubby or that she should lose a few pounds.

• Don’t remark on her looks very often. I know that this feels counter-intuitive. Shouldn’t every girl know that her dad thinks she’s beautiful? Of course; but don’t overdo it. You don’t want her to feel that her appearance is a priority to you.

• Use lots of words of encouragement and affection. Girls use more words, and they bond through words. Girls feel that words connect them with others.

This post is adapted from “Love—the Dos and Don’ts,” Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: The 30-Day Challenge
 (2012).


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The Catholic Children's Bible app

The most loved Bible stories come to life before your eyes Watch as your child interacts with each story and is empowered to read, live, and love the Word of God 


Please join the Des Moines Marriage and Family Life Officefor Dr. Marcellino D’Ambrosio’s talk on

Keeping Your Kids Catholic
7 – 8:30 p.m.
Friday, March 28, 2014

Sacred Heart Church
1627 Grand Ave., West Des Moines, IA

Free childcare is available. Please RSVP with Adam Storey at [email protected] or 

515.237.5056 if you need childcare.

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A father's love...

Marcus Roberts March18,  2014

A touching story about sacrifice by one man for his son. Everyday, 40 year old Yu Xukang gets up at 5am. He prepares a lunch for his son to eat at school. Then he helps his son walk to school, about 7km away over a rugged mountain road. Read more...

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Before I became a mom, I was a really good one.... Having a kid really changes that, no?  Catholics love to observe, teach and celebrate, and I want to reflect that in my home. So, while I might not be making my own pasta from scratch each night while washing my dishes with my homemade dish soap, I’m going to do this, dang it. At least one of them…
40 Simple Lenten Activities


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from the article: 
Walk This Way


“Can you get too caught up in family, so that you don’t have to think about what it actually means to be a disciple?” asks Julie Hanlon Rubio in U.S. Catholic. ...“If I really believe that I am trying to form my kids as disciples, then I have to ask: How does each activity contribute to that? . . . Let’s really ask: What do I want my kids to be?”

So let’s look at where our feet are taking us this Lent. After all, we are followers of Jesus, the teacher who walked all over Galilee and who said, “I am the way.
”  read the full article

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PARENTS:
Consider purchasing this booklet  for your family - 

It contains quotes by mother theresa followed by a reflection for parents and family prayer, based on that quote. 


This daily guide shows parents and children alike how to put her words into practice with practical suggestions on how to live the threefold call of Lent: to fast, pray, and care the poor. 


Four Lessons and a Butterfly

.....As Nancy was dying, her true colors showed (dying does that to a person.) They were brilliant. She smiled and said that she had done everything in her life that she had hoped for. She died with no regrets. She had parented the best that she knew how as a single mother and felt no g
uilt about any mistakes that she had made because she made amends with each of her children. One thing she said on her death bed impacted me enormously. 

She told her children (ages 18-29) that there were four principles that she wanted each of them to live with in her honor.  Here is what she said to them...   read more
from www.megmeekermd.com

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CHECK OUT Lisa Schmidt's Blog at CatholicMom.com
(Lisa will be joining her husband for our Couple's 
Night Out on March 1)

Lisa Schmidt writes at ThePracticingCatholic.com with her husband Joel. A proud Iowan, the Schmidts reside in Des Moines where Lisa is a full-time at-home mom. Lisa is also heavily involved in supporting Joel as he journeys through deacon formation. At The Practicing Catholic, Lisa enjoys writing about the things that bring her great joy: the Catholic faith, her family, fine arts, and good food.


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From the article:

Being a Good Father 
.....Having said all this, let us suppose for a moment that I could distill everything I have learned about Christian fatherhood into a single book.


 Let us further suppose this would be a book much younger men could read (and reread) so that they might reach and exceed at a much earlier age the understanding I have attained only at age 66—after a lifetime of prayer, learning from my own experience and the example of other families, and even seeing the beauty of family life in my children’s homes.


 What sort of book would I write?The answer is that I would not write a book at all, because the right book was already.....read more

IN THE NEWS...


‘USA Today’ to Obama: Leave the Little Sisters Alone  WASHINGTON — The editors ofUSA Today have urged the Obama administration to stop trying to require the Little Sisters of the Poor to abide by the federal contraception mandate in violation of their religious beliefs.  READ MORE

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Prayer of Discipleship

Loving God, I thank you for Choosing me                     to be your disciple
And for the gift of your Son, Jesus.
Help me proclaim and bear witness
To the Gospel by word and by deed
Today and every day.
Open my heart to The outcast, the forgotten,
The lonely, the sick, and the poor.
Grant me the courage To think, to choose, and to live as a Christian, Joyfully obedient to God.
Amen

Adapte from the homily of Pope Francis, Basilica of St. Paul Outside the Walls, April 14, 2013


Good ARTICLES from this past year


Four vital lessons that we need to teach young men

A timeless message to teens: mow the lawn, wash the windows, learn to cook

Victoria’s Secret model quits after feeling like a piece of meat

Debunking the myth that porn is harmless

Father’s importance

The media are getting Pope Francis wrong, again
 
The Good Reading Guide’s favorite books of 2013

Safety in social media comes down to lifestyles

How to cope with cyber-bullying   

Sweetening the pill

Financial Peace University

Coming in January!  This nine week program begins on Sunday, January 12. Each session lasts 90 minutes - teaching the seven steps that will give you hope and help you to become debt fee, build wealth, and give back.  Childcare provided.  Contact Lindsey Carey for more information:  [email protected]
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Let's Not Be Blind
While the media industry and some advocates would have us believe porn is harmless, acceptable, and natural, the reality is much different.  Ninety percent of 8-16 year-olds have viewed pornography online.  These statistics from www.familysafemedia.com prove the enormity of this “dirty little secret” that destroys the lives of many men, women and children.

Does Pornography Hurt Anyone?

The Poison of Pornography


When Children View Pornography

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The naming of parts - for five-year-olds  
Carolyn Moynihan | FAMILY EDGE |  December 2013

What sex-ed progressives think your little children should know. 
Read more...


A Parents' Prayer for Students
Dear Lord,
As my children leave for school,
I pray that you will keep them in your care.
Send your Spirit to open their minds
to all that is true and beautiful and good.
Help them to see the gifts and talents
you have given them and to use them well. 
Help them to grow in knowledge and wisdom. Help them to be kind to others
and lead others be kind to them.
Give their teachers patience and understanding and help them teach what is just and true.
Send your angels to guide and guard my children and to keep them from all harm.
Open their young hearts to your presence and enfold them in your peace and protection.
Hold them in the palm of your hand and bring them home safely at day's end.  Amen.
ConcordPastor.blogspot.com
 

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